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15 May 2011

"What doesn't kill you, makes you stronger" - Yeah, well you try it!

cliché or cliche  is an expression, idea, or element of an artistic work which has been overused to the point of losing its original meaning or effect.


People use clichés all the time, is something they're used to do, they've been taught, since they were little, to use them. There are some clichés that make me think a lot, but then, there are the other ones, the ones that when I listen to them, I literally, want to rip my head off. The love clichés. They're so annoying. Because, no, not everything is fair in war, or love. Cheating isn't fair in love. Or war. And, who cares if you are unlucky on cards, it doesn't mean that you're lucky in love. That's a lie! And, you don't only hurt the one you love, you hurt lots of people, the one you love is just the one that sufferes the most.
Just so we're clear, I'm not skeptical, I just don't like clichés, because they set my hopes up, and I always get hurt. A while ago, a guy, one of my closest friends, told me that no matter how hard or how much I fought to be happy, that would only come if I weren't expecting it. I realize that's a cliché, so, I didn't believe it, but it does make sense, I mean, we fight all the time to be happy, to find the one we love, to whatever, and when we're looking we only find crap. But then, when we're not, we find this great part of us, of our life, that we weren't expecting to find anytime soon, I know I'm just a kid, but I also know that someone whose life is as empty as mine, needs some real hope, and clichés are not the way to go, even when some clichés make sense.



So, you know what, screw clichés, because no matter how hard we try to be real, because we are in real life, clichés always seem to disrupt our judgment.





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